. Sirjana, You've done the right thing writing your words over this public forum where your identity is just void! Dont believe me ? OK . Read this : http://personals.yahoo.com/static/relationships_heal-breakup-beliefnet --- excerpt--- Tip #3: Write it Out After a breakup, the heart and soul often feel overwhelmed with emotions and memories. Pouring your anger, hurt, confusion, sadness, regret, or even relief or apology into a heartfelt letter to your ex is a great first step toward healing yourself of these feelings. Then, make a ritual of getting rid of the letter instead of sending it. Either put it in a special private box, tuck it into a journal, or toss it into a crackling fire. ---------------------- And to those people who never had a bad relationship and call her bitchy just because she wrote it , i say : perhaps it was not HER who is bitching, it could be YOU! grrrrr : )