Racheeta, I fully concur with Chana's points. You had indicated that you were going to Nepal sometime this month on one of your recent threads. Assuming that the plan is still intact, use your visit as an opportunity to sort out any differences. Remember that you will be seeing each other in person after 3 years, and there is a big difference between meeting in person and using other forms of communication. I hope your situation will make a positive turn. Good luck and bon voyage.