Naak ! Ignore her as if she never existed before or now. Always repeat the matra- ignore - ignore-ignore ! I don't see any good reason to go for the wedding unless you can make it like MAHA's -15 GATE- and get a sweet loving girl as your life partner. The memories ( ur ex) will be there. They will frequently come to hunt you back, you just resist em. Be strong, after years if not months you will be on your own. And never let the past hunt you back ! You will be the hero of your own life ! One important message to you, never tell others (even to your best friends) that you feel like dumped, ever ! You better cry alone at nights or days when you feel like. But never tell others how you are feeling. It will make you even weak after all.Certainly, you want to share the sadest feeling with others, but those whom you trust so much will make a -talking topic- about you with others at your back. That's it ! -Shit happens in life - Just think you accidently stepped on that, now it stinks but the bad odor will go away from your surrounding and a new dawn will be seen with more exciting rays of hope of your life. Again, be brave, act brave physically and spiritually. Things will fall in place again ! Wait for that day to come, it's not that far ! Good Luck ! -BD