wow another one hahaha...:P SAN bro, isn't it high time we created a separate section for relationship threads huh? haha... and ImI, you really think from your heart these days? that's quite a news then. hahaha....don't tell us tomorrow, you've started to think from your leather GUN hahahahahahaha :P rUINa, nicely said and i concur! :P mispriya, as someone said, i would also like to hear the OTHER side of the story. i mean just to make it complete so we can suggest you sth concrete.. :P in any case, here's my take, nothing works, if you (both the partners) don't intend to. everything works, if you love, trust and care. it's not the physical distance but the mental/emotional incompatibility that hinders. don't wait and let things happen. make them happen for you. call him. talk to him...what's the point in sitting idle, speculating and guessing? he is yours so HE has the answers not us-- sajha love pundits! :D all's well that ends well. a lover has to shrink his/her larger than life EGO and come in front of his/her partner with a torn pocket :P. that's what i believe in. complex bhandai basyo bhane life ko simple kura pani complex hunchha ni hoina? all the best to you and to yours! LooTe NOT ALL MEN ARE BASTARDS ;P