dear mr saurav ojha, thanks for so sweet words that reflects your family, community and how you brought up. Don't manipulate yourself in reflecting your family. People will not only think of how you write but think what kind of sanskar your family has given you..... i am so sorry for you mitra. I know your purkherli from sudur paschim who are conidered the best in maintaining the tradition and culture of our country and you are so paranoid and borderline... don't hurt yourself because you are hurting the people behind you too........ pity on you man