Well few lines does not explains everything but this is what I want to share. Shit happens, no one is perfect and Sijupanta "man makes mistake and foolish repeat them". As Bideshi mentioned that woman goes through such a stressful time while they are pregnant so you should not add any more on to that. If you broke up with your mistress then you must stick to that. Do not go around looking for trouble. Think about how many people are involved with you, your wife and new unborn baby i.e. You, your wife, your baby, your parents, her parents, many more realatives and also the society. Now think about going with your mistress or your GF and here I think you and your mistress only. If you go with your GF then you on your own leaving so many people hurt. Give yourself time, your memories will fade her(your GF) out. Involve with your wife. Give her more time, I think she deserve that, after all you are going to spend your life with her. You do not need to listen to me or anyone from this thread. But do not forget to use your own conscious mind. Good luck WoC