Well,in such scenerio,u should be ousted,but here the situation is different.Your wife is pregnant.If u think(?) u still love her,then try to be by her side,help her in this pregnancy.A woman has to go thru a lot during her pregnancy.I'm sure during such moment, no woman wants any other stress in her life specially about her husband's extra marital affair or how he is still missing her or how much confused is he! Love definitely helps one to forget all the woes.So,focuss on your love which u say is your wife(?).Don't go after the other girl.She is a family breaker.(Obviously u r more jerk than her).U have mentioned that the other girl said something bad about your unborn baby!How can anybody say baby stuff to the babies? They r so pure,innocent,lovable ,huggable and what not?and besides your baby is not even born!!!!!!!!!She is a cheap slut. Well..........try to help your wife in her pregnancy,it's your baby too.Even after all those,once your baby is born,u still want to be with the other girl,then you don't deserve your wife.Divorce her.I'm sure she will be happy to get rid of the jerk who cheated her and still love the other girl.But if u don't feel miserable and sad but more happy,stress free with your wife then that's good.I don't think she needs to hear your love story.She has more responsibility in her life once her baby is born so do u.Just take it as a nightmare ,forget about it and move on. Just my two cents opinion! K garne ?keti pariyo,nari haru lai cheat bhayeko,dhoka bhayeko,dukhha pareko sahanai sakdina!!Ahem ahem!