Eight0Two - I am not sure if there is a magic pill that will work for everyone but like some of the others have suggested, trying out something new, like a new hobby or travelling can help. I guess loneliness has more to do with what's happening in our minds rather than just the absense of physical bodies to give us company. The classic distinction between aloness and lonliness where you can be alone and not be lonely comes to mind. Self-pity under any conditions is detrimental - but especially so when you are alone. Hence, the need for hobbies and new things to do - such activities tend to boost your self confidence and make you feel better about yourself leaving little room for self pity. The key to being alone without being lonely is to have things to keep your mind occupied. I set small goals for myself - like running an 200 metres - and get great pleasure when I can beat such a goal. Just one example. But again that's just one person's opinion. Best wishes. :)