Jotishi You should better be making clear what actually NEPALI MENTALITY is. There is nothing like brand name as such. Personal issues with friends or relatives can not be generalized. If its about the personal issues, may be I hate my own brother or father but when I am in trouble, these are the people in the frontline to get me out of. See the cases of Pranav and Ritika! How Nepali community got united.If we can not be a part of Nepali community, we can be that of none. During my initial days in USA, I got help and support enough from the Nepalis of my community. Now, I would like to do my best to the needful. There are some people ( probably they think they are from priviledge class or different blood) who ignore or act funny but its their problem and they are not the representative of Nepali community. Nepali's back biting!! Its a human character in general. There are this kind of characters in all races, nationalities and groups. Don't say that there are not back-biting people in other communities. What I admit about Nepali community is that we can not stop talking about politics!! We should think about what we can give to our community rather than what we can get from the community. Nepali community doesn't suck! Nepali community rocks!