Hi Nepali Hero, Well my suggestion for you will be to first try and work out the issue. I mean try to analyze and see what happened between you and ur wife which led you to divorce. Marriage is a bond between two hearts where not everything works out the way you want (Sometimes). But there are times when you need to compromise even though it's not your mistake. So if possible, then try doing that. Talk to your wife and see how you both can resolve the problem. (1st solution) Secondly, I will suggest that you rethink about your situation and talk to your heart. Question urself: "Do I really wanna do this"??"Will this really keep me happy"? If the answer is "YES" then go ahead and file a divorce even though it will take 3-4 years. I understand that in our Nepali culture we need to respect our parents & families and take their suggestion. But life is not always about them. They have helped you all your life to get education and to see you happy in ur life. So, "Nepali hero" it's that time of ur life where you need to decide what is good for you? Leave aside "culture" or whatever. I personally think that hamro nepali culture le arkako khutta tanna bahek aru kehi jane ko chaina. Otherwise we would have been far ahead in our country’s development. So, "Nepali hero," leave aside "nepali culture" and think about what is "BEST" for you and act accordingly. I am sure you have heard this: "Follow ur heart." It's better to file divorce now (if this is what you really want) rather than thinking about it over and over and then not getting any where in your life for another 5 years. At least you will be happy and live ur life after that.