Huh? did you read what I said carefully Jol? I didn't say all the Nepalese girl should go around having sex with people. It's their choice what they want to do. they're free to make their choice, but they have to deal with the consequences. The main point of my argument was same rules should apply to males as well. Not to be mean, but majority of students guys (I'm not saying they don't work hard, they can work really really hard) don't have a solid character either. Majority of them are "jadya" and revolve all they want with any different partners. I do agree with the fact that we don't have free sex in our society. Women in western society are discriminated in many ways due to the this fact, it's not something we can change it's biological not social. trust me, I have seen girls like you mentioned doing all they want in US, and marrying some guy from Nepal (that too from a good family and all the good things attached). You know why? Because he wanted a free "greencard". So no finding a good decent husband might be difficult, but not impossible. it's not something you and I can change just because we don't agree with it. Just like Celine said if you don't like it why make it a big deal? Let us go our way, and they'll go their way.