Chetry???,that is,Americanized Chhetry or chhetri? As a matter of fact,I met her father on the day I landed in the US. And I am just disappointed with her alledged remark "One of my parents is a Nepali". what does that mean?... to you? Maybe,she is getting perfection,and for her,father is nothing....it is totally a disrespect...shame on her. But, I am sure this is just one example.There is a whole generation who prefer to say 'so...' and this is all the so-called 'the demand of time'....???Be ready to digest such a non-sense !....Live just for you and nobody else. Let her be 'American',that is what she is or wants to be,and proud to be.... She wants to go ahead...the 'path of progress'