well, it's the chemistry which partners share and the level of maturity they possess, that matters, and it does not necessarily comes up with age.. A 17 years old girl can be as mature as a 50 yrs old man. some 30 years old women behave like 16.....can't help! i haven't seen the movie though, however, i guess, it's inspired by Vladimir Nabokov's novel 'Lolita'. A movie has also been made on the novel, i believe in 1997. Jeremy Irons and Melanie Griffith played the lead roles... Nishabd, I believe, is 'Lolita' minus 'pedophilia' :P LooTe