balbahadur, The first thing i want to say you is that countering doesnt just mean to say you are wrong but to come with some solid arguments...Your example of food is not relevant here.. do u mean to say that there is no educational institution in Nepal? The comparision might be between good food and bad food and then what i will chose depends on the circumstances. I am not saying that they are supposed to go back to Nepal but why to rip your ass in US when you know that one is going to have bad times here..scholorship payena bahne Nepal mai basera padhe hudaina?. why are people so fancied about US? You know balbahadur guessing is a good work but unfortunately it doesnt help much....Before asking me to go back to Nepal and set and example, you were first supposed to know that I do indeed work In US. but u didnt think that important cause you have a mindset everyone is the same. I am not trying to sound here good saying that I dont have to work but thats the way it is...hope this enlightens you and in future you will think something before saying anything,.. i still believe that i will prefer staying in Nepal reading in some normal colleges rather than studying in "normal" US colleges and working 50 hrs to pay for my tuition... I dont mean to be arrogant.. let peace prevail