Ashu ji, In your experience that could be true. But again, I don't agree about your gross generalisation that given a chance most Nepalis bad-mouth other Nepalis. All I can pray is may you be bestowed with Nepalis who don't do that shit. Your antidote to stop badmouthing might work with your badmouthers.Try it with the Natawarlal and tell us if that worked. Lastly, tension ko kura kaha bata ayo. Just as you feel writing something here in Sajha on issues that interests you doesn't mean it is stealing your peace of mind. You write because you think you have something to say. Simple as that. Ani Pire ji, "जाँ सम्म भगतले देश टुक्र्याउने कुरो छ, हाम्रो देश तेति कमजोर छैन" Taang na puchar ko kura nagarnus tapai. Tyo Bhagate le desh tukrayo bhanera kosle bhanya cha. You are giving undue importance to him.