Ashu ji, Great thoughts. Wish we all could be as great as you are. But again, please bestow me with your wisdom on the following: 1, "And when Nepalis dislike somebody, they just go on and on like there's no tomorrow! " Since when did you sense the Nepalis stream of consciousness on disliking somebody. Who has the authority to decide that? An individual cannot speak on behalf collective consciousness unless otherwise supported by facts. 2. "As a pahadiya bahun who wants to give space to unpopular, controversial, unsettling, and radical views ........" Can you tell me in which category does the following fall: "F**k Bahun, F**k Pahadi" !!! Is it - unpopular, controversial, unsettling, or a radical view? 3. "I can CHOOSE to ignore his posts or configure my email systems so that his emails end up in my 'spam' boxes". Read bibas100 's post. He has answers for you. 4. "Again, .. just as those swimsuits that Miss Nepals wear do NOT turn Nepal into a bikini-land overnight and destroy 'our culture', Paramendra's blog postings too do NOT destroy Nepal as know it. " Yes Ashu ji, thats true. But Miss Nepals don't ridicule, abuse someone who doesn't CHOOSE (your big word) to wear bikinis. They are content about their own choice.You made an inherently fallacious reference here. And by the way, it wont destroy a shit about my nation but surely does try to attack my nationhood. And thats that. "But hey, that's just me." !! DOH!!!!!!!