. Nice points vishontar. spiritual enlightening and pragmatic - they are! I dont see a point in arguing about sex before/after marriage. I see a point in arguing about sex with the right person(committed relation)! as LOVE is , so is SEX. of course, DIVINE and with extreme PLEASURE! Sex with the right person , once committed ! Thats the right thing to do , without any guilt! Relationships require commitment, beliefs, compassion and you wouldnt want your partner to have shared the compassion for anyone before, the guilt remains within you or the other if you commit a "sexual misconduct" as per vishontar's definition. And, its amazing to see very few a people lead life with extreme TRUST / COMPASSION for their partners. In simple words i would suggest: there are better things to worry about! SEX is not an important "necessity" unless you find your partner.