Sheetalb Ji, admired your wisdom..... Kudos! Its my fortune to be in touch with wise people like you. Please keep adding. Let me illustrate the point you have made: 21^st Century: What should be in 21^st century? When we say 21^st century we mean an advanced century, which should be better than 20^th century. Our thinking should be advance; our way of living should be advance; our life should be advance and our behavior should be advance. How can a uncontrolled way of living be advance than the controlled one? How can an open expression of emotions be advance over controlling the emotions? Lets say there are two people, one expresses his anger and another controls his anger. Do you mean that the one who expresses his anger is the person of 21^st century and the one who restrain his anger is of 20th? Lust is the emotion worser than the anger. You can shamelessly express your anger but you feel shameful to express the lust. It is not a social taboo imposed by some conservative people but it is science. In this 21^st century no scientist dare to write a paper saying that free sex is good for life. In this 21^st century no physician/psychiatrist prescribe you for free sex. In this 21^st century no sex right group comes on the street for free sex. If it were good my friend, there would have been a Noble Laureate by now who had proved it. If it were good my friend, Bill Clinton's daughter would have choose prostitution as a job. If it were good my friend, the most powerful person (Clinton) of the world wouldn't have cried like child, would have been rewarded instead. To be continued...........