yeah I totally agree with what scropio said,thats a very wrong judgement of calling a womam slut ,just because she has engaged in sexual relationship before. And we dont hear about "man whore" very much in our society,do we?(unless you are talking about the movie european jigaloo,deuce bigaloo). Does that tell a man can have sex with innumerable hookers and still called "gentleman"...cant hard to draw a margin there can we? So how fair is it to call a woman "slut".And i dont expect I will find a vigin woman while i marry,If i do that,it will be great otherwise not a big deal.I believe in "dont ask dont tell policy".....life is a lot more than your few minutes bed romance........... hurri