Interesting .... :-) Jyotika -- I think you gave up pursuing the Captain too soon. You should've persisted, girl!! Pyar kiya to darna kya ..... What's funny is that the Captain posted just a few moments after Jyotika declared that her crush had dwindled and she listed potential ones for the future ... :)) I think we should respect the Captain's wishes and leave his private life alone. Like him, many of us come to sajha seeking some kind of mental stimulation, or relaxation -- sometimes we end up making good friends offline from sajha interactions. I certainly have. Coming to sajha looking for love is not the healthiest approach to what this forum stands for. On the flip side, hey, if sajha people do end up liking or even falling in love with each other, who are we to complain? :-P Better to be in love than to hate and bicker the way humanity all over the world is doing in the current era that we live in. So .... don't be afraid to love and say that you are in love with someone. After all, Parda nahi jab koi khuda se Bando se parda karna kya Pyar kiya to darna kya! In peace.