Sometimes arrange marriage is good but what if you're not in love with a person you will marry? can you take it? a lot of arrange marriage now a days is not working out. what if after a couple of years, you will fall in love with somebody else and the feelings you have for that person is totally different? What you gonna do? But you have to make your own choices, either arrange or not, it all depends on you. You have to follow what your heart dictates and whatever makes you happy. As long as your doing the right thing. we only have one life to live in this world, make sure that the person you will choose is the person you want to be with for the rest of your life, a person you wanna grow old with.