one more thing... it's easy to fall in love, and it's EQUALLY easy to get out of it :P, if you're NOT serious about it. just like achieving something is relatively easier than maintaining the successful status throughout your career, falling in love comes easily but maintaining the bond between partners requires some effort in both the partner's parts. you've got to respect what you've got. remember human nature is very uncanny and there is always a tendency, albeit in various magnitudes, to find solace in what others have than in what you have. as they say, grass looks greener in the other side of the field. so, respect what you've been bestowed with...making or breaking a relationship is in your hand. try to find a comfort zone between you two and try your best to amplify it with time. know what i'm saying? you've got to compromise or even sacrifice to some extent and there could be times when you've got to let it go. too much of ego ain't good for any. of course, one cannot forcefully compromise to help in maintaining a relationship. you've to find the limit and push yourself towards it, if need be. no one's perfect. it's not like what u see in movies, you meet with her, eyes meet and then tujhe dekha to yeh jaana sanam, pyar hota hai deewaana sanam, HELL NO!....reality is quite different and you have to get used to it. don't dream too much or live for too long in the fantasyland. he, who can deal with the reality, face it's music and come out as a winner, is the MAN!!!! i believe, same applies to women. LooTe