.Peter, Most guys get attracted to pretty girls (Hot, beautiful). Appearance is what they look at first and that becomes the major factor to get attracted to the girl. But as they start dating or talking, then they feel that appearance is not the only thing. The way they talk, the way they listen to guys, the way they reponse to different situations etc etc are other equally major factors. Probably you have not found that girl who is pretty and equally intelligent, smart, caring. (I know its impossible to find these kinda girls). This might be one reason. I would say, start dating average looking girl who has a great sense of humor, who is pretty understanding and who tries to solve the problem instead of creating it. You will start loving her. I think, ditto applies to girls too. My friend once said this to me when we were boozing, "Don't love a girl for how she looks. Love her for how she talks. Coz, in future, her looks may change with age but the way she talks will live forever." Having said that, I should also tell you this, if this is not the reason then I am sorry, I dont have any further idea. ;-) Have a good Thursday. :-)