No Spin Answers: 1) I would be suspicious. Could he be a devil and am I selling my soul for a million bucks? 2) I would tell 'em to shove it up their you-know-where. 3) Depends on the future prospects. If it is a dead-end job in Fargo with no possibility of advancement or lateral movement, and the job in Nepal is attractive, of course, I would take the latter. 4)If it is just for few years (less than 3?) and it is a serious relationship, I would ask her to wait. I would work my ass off, amass lot of money, so that our life together will be comfortable back home. Delayed pleasure, so to speak. 5) That would suck! Sleep?