sqy I have a Tamang streak in me so "Kan chaji ale?" and i just can't help showing off my knowledge of knowing how to speak in Tamang. Unlike you i was very proud to be who I was even when mean girls called me bhotini I was able to tell them how proud i was that I came from my family and wouldn't trade it with theirs and that kept them shut. matter of self esteem i guess and when we are young not many of us can handle that so i understand how humiliating that must have been. therefore if Marwadi's have lived for generations they should be allowed to be nepali in every way. i guess some of you don't like the fact that they hold the keys of nepal's treasury!!! Too bad and Sayami the photo's of marwadi's look great!!! Some even resemble movie stars!!