No offence Guys first keep in mind that you are marrying for yourself not for you parent.....(esp. when single family system is on rise)..... I believe that if your wife is intelligent and loves you then she sure will respect your parents despite all odds. I know parents are a little dogmatic but an intelligent wife will take care of that . What do parets want ?.............just a nice buhari whom they can be proud of and loves their son and respects them...................I think there will be no major problem if you find a nice loving girl...... Now a days parents point of view are also changing a lot.......... So I think caste matters to some extent but we can handle that..........