You cannot please everyone.So one action can hurt someone while the same can make other happy.Just do what your heart says is rite, you are just answerable to yourself because you cannot lie to yourself. God is something you define by yourself.Of course, your surroundings & circumstances influences you a lot to shape up this definition. Ultimately, God is your innerself.When you do something good , you think HE is happy but actually it is your innerself that is happy. You don't need to show love , some are way too expressive but some are not. Love is the language even animals can reciprocate, so ??? Sorry, I guess I am getting a lil bit carried away.