sajhauser, we r talking about marriage sharing and commitment. it has to b both ways. when i say about saying sorry its both. but one should not b keeping tabs but rather doing whatever it takes to sweep the other person away from the floor (of course with love). nepali ko ukhan chha ni "bhareko hanga nihunchha" . aafno manche ko aagadi nihurera koi pani sano hudaina. @ least that's the way i think and act. of course bhane ni "EGO" in a relationship any cannot flourish love. ani if one can understand fully then parents and accepting them those does not even come in picture.. they will b an issue when this EGO and selfish attitude "i want u all for myself" why u need to do anything for them HOINA RA???? ===================================================== as always what do i know (O: