As marriage binds two people, it also brings relationships that you didn’t ask for. Communication and understanding are two obvious methods of resolving relationship problems, but the problem can become a mountain out of a molehill if one doesn’t know how to communicate or if he/she doesn’t have capacity to understand (because of personality disorders). I think, generally, a man has to act as a middle-person between his wife and his parents (or friends), and vice versa, because he is the one who understands both the parties. It is a BIG mistake to expect someone who doesn’t know your friends and family to understand and accept your family from heart.