sorry to interrupt! but , whats with handling? " dont ever mishandle them ?" what does that mean. Every person has priorities, every one has morales, values, ethics to which he/she is bound to. AND.. most importantly, i ,as a person would not glorify to my existence as a MAN. I believe we are HUMAN and we have equal emotions, delicacy as you will. So, though we are tough as seen .. i believe we are equally hurt on things. The point i am trying to convey is : its HUMAN emotions that come to us when we think abt certain things of life, but then again, its the same HUMAN emotions that overcomes it. So the thing is : no matter what the problem is, look at brighter sides of your life!!! You'll see the sun rising like this sunday morning ever!