Zany, Thanks......I'm glad you could understand what I was trynna convey. And, its cute that you are concerned regarding this issue. Don't feel sorry if you don't know wht to do at times; for me a yr long relationship is just the beginning. I have a fren who has been dating more than 5 yrs now and still seems to be confused at times. Some discover the chemistry sooner some never perhaps. I think you should ask your girlfren also about how she feels. Depends whether she is also feeling the "affection inflation" as you have mentioned above, afterall in the end its only to her that matters and ask her to be honest. On the other hand, just because you are feeling the "inflation" , dont keep away yourself from being expressive; she might just take it the other way. So, talk to her. The best way to improve a relationship is talking ....at least once in a while. Sun_shine If you held it loose, it gets blown away BUT in the presence of wind. (now if you are trynna correct my typos...m sorry...it was about 4 in the morn....and i was drooping and half asleep literally when i wrote it, cudnt help it. :P)