hhahahahahaha... i know what u trying to say zany.... women - the most mysterious creature god has ever created. no doubt about it. to my understanding, most women need to be pampered and and u need to explicitly tell them how much u love them (as in - "I LOVE U SWEETIE") after every 3 mins, else they would start thinking that u have lost the vigor for them. but in the process if u tend to be too much expressive, things start to become too commonplace for them and hence they will lose interest in u!....so u need to keep a perfect balance hehe...i know it's easier said than done but that is how it is! :p on a similar note, the biggest turn off for me is a girl without an ounce of sense of humor. i would not care if my girl looks like aish rai (just an example ni pheri, i ain't no fan of aish :P), or suparnakha (with due respect :P), but she's got to have some degree of sense of humor. i joke a lot, and i pull legs of every person close to me. if she does not get it, she may think that i don't love her for real and that's when things start to become complex. :P ....she should at least understand, what i am talking about....many nepalese girls are ZERO when it comes to generating wit and comprehending humor...no offence hai pheri! :P LooTe