PlanTo(Work)ToPlan , If i were then i wud have neva post this thread here. I can understand how hurt and shocked u might have gone after seeing all those unexpected mess . But still none knows here what exact bond ur gf and u shared together. none knows over here what type of realtionships u two shared with one-another, do they?? or do we??...its only you who knows all the facts,only you. Here in sajha u can find different types of pplz with different background. Those who are decent will hardly respond to ur thread and u will have to hear a lots of name calling here after posting such thread.which is apparent in above postings. Well, i agree whatever ur gf did was totally unethical and it was a very wrong deed. But still u loved her ,didn't u? how can u just stay and see those name callings to someone with whom u shared a whole part of u (until the incident occured)???how can u do this?? She betrayed u and i m sure it didn't happen over a night, u must have had some shorta clue through her act or behaviours...or may be she showed her different attitude but may be u neva noticed that...what i beleive is, whenever there are some scratches in any relationship then both 2 are equally responsible for that. Yes, love demands a lot of caring,sharing and most importantly, sufficent time for one-another. I m totally blur how you 2-were but still from the incident i roughly figured that u didn't know girl at all...not even slightly. U know what?? man are to good to hide their emotions but Girls can hardly do that . So if u were concentrative and if u were to caring u sud have known ur realtionship was in danger-line...Either the girl was too reserved or you were too carefree to happen all this things. I guess, u would have acknowledged by now that It take a long time, real long time to build a good relationship and not a second for ruining it." And i suppose, u sud have directly asked them both with a eye-contact (ur room-mate and ur so called gf) why they did it to you ( if u really want to know the answer), Instead posting this thread here...But the fact is, they did it and i dun think u want the gal back in any ways so its better u keep urself busy with other stuffs and try not to let same things repeat in ur life again.I know it must be stone hard for u to face all this but u can't do anything now. It has already happened. Hey!! how about being lil more attentive towards ur personal life now onwards and taking time off from all this recent unpleasant and difficult situation?? May u cud comfy ur mind and free ur confusing thoughts. All the best for moving Ahead facing this tough time.