naaa to be happy you gotta do what you want. You cant listen to people even if they are your own family. Thats the worst thing people do this a lot and end up living a miserable life like my self haha. You also need that one person who ever it is doesnt have to be your true love or anything that one person that always listens to you. The person who knows you more than anyone, who likes/loves you for who you are and is always there to listen to you no matter where or at what time. This is the person that will keep you sane even if you life is a hell hole like mine. If you do what you want and always have that one person to talk to you will be the happiest man alive. Peace