thank you dharare kancha for that bit of history... and I think most of are getting carried away into wrong directions.... Whether muslim or not I think Urdu is the most beaustiful language in the world...and I thingk thats where all the syos rrots from - URDU...there's nothing wrong in trying to better our speeches..... e.g. would you prefer it if someone calls you "ta" or "timi".like in urdu "aap" sounds so much better than " tum" or "tere".. but i guess its upto the user..some feel much closer to each other using "ta" In english too there are cordial speeches.. you can speak call your dad / mom/ whoever - "yo" , "Hey Jonh", Mrs. Smith or mom or whatver but there is definetly the cordial landguage.. Living in Boston ..although a city in a Democratic state..there are lots of aristocrtatic families out here.....they never say you..they say "yourself" ,,.and the rest of the speech gets fancier....English is no different than Nepali..you just have different dialects everywhere