Bokeshwore haha i like that man thats a really good way to put it. No one is gonna had you things like you are a baby here (meaning US). You gotta earn it. I realized my dream and well now i am changed from everyday nepali thinking of being a doctor or engineer to something else. The thing is its near imposible for immigrants but its not impossible nothing is. Soo US is a great place whether you want to stay her or not depends on you and how hard you can work. For me i am willing to do anything to reach my dream and i am not gonna let anything stop me. Peace