Nirmal Adhikari bhai, Na Rishaunus na ! Tyo comments tapai lai hoina kya. If you accepts it then only its for you. You could choose to accept it and recognize it as "meant for you" or discard it and do not be bothered about it. Afterall those are mere words, which you identify and associate them with yourself. If you want headache, take those words in your heart, if you dont want headaches, just ignore it kya Nirmal bhai. Nirmal bhai, one day bhagwan Buddha went to this village where the villagers cursed him and used all the vulgur words but lord Buddha just smiled at them. All those villagers were tired afterwards and just left. Later Ananda asked him why he was not offended, Buddha told him that he had a choice to whether accept those curse or not. He simply did not accept it so no tensions for him. Tapai lay tyo comments accepted as if they were for you, so you felt bad kya. Those are not for you Nirmal bhai. Peace.