I don't feel that Nepalese are being selfish at all..What I feel is.. Nepalese seem to be selfish in U.S because... We don't have much time to socialize.. We get time during the weekends, so want to utilize that time doing our own stuff rather than socializing.. Even if we're socializing, we are thinking of the week ahead and the things that need to be done the following week.. So we're kind of dazed and lost...which makes us seem selfish...Not a very smart observation but that's what I feel..:) Don't worry...Be happy...