Quite facinating remark- "Desire to look Normal.." I completely agree with you. No matter what, how turbulent our lives are, we just make so much effort to look plain normal. Otherwise we don't want to fall into the catagory of abnormality which falls under the sub-catagory of "Minority." After all, as my sister says, always, "Majority Rules...!!!" We don't want to be left alone as being abnormal right!!! It sure is costly....