"But the thing here is, most Nepali people choose to have son because they think a boy is BETTER than a girl! In that context, why it would NOT matter if it is a boy. " (sighs) If you allow things like that to affect the way you think, then that's your choice, more power to you, and I can see where you might be coming from. But for me, and I hope for many others, it is irrelevant if some moron thinks a son is superior to a daughter - why the hell should I even consider the viewpoints of an idiot like that when I express my own choices in a social setting?