San thanks for the reply. I agree with you. And if any such movement is run by sajha or any Nepali groups here in the USA targeting to eradicate ill practice of casticsm , I will try to involve in it. Sadly, even we- so called educated of Nepali society could not come up with respect to each other let alone coming to any conclusion and you had to intervine. I wish we could perform healthy discussion , but my expirence - and i'm sure i'm not the only one , it is very rare in any Nepali group. I think we should let go our ego, think we all are the same and start thinking as a Nepali and not as bahun, chhetry, newar, matwalis or others. Freigners take us as Nepalis, it is our primary identity. Castism is only what we have created withing ourself. The discrimination that comes with castism leads to heinous outcomes and should be stopped. I am glad to see so many sajha users who hate castism. I am already excited for new Nepal, where we have love and respect for each other :)