Load of crock with sugar on top. Made up BS. This post should be taken with a grain of salt. Why would any sane person come to sajha.com asking for a relationship advice? I would have opted for Dear Abby, personally. And the thing is, this is not the only weird relationship post on sajha. There have been tons of similar nature, and my gut instinct tells me that they're all coming from one person with multiple aliases. All these posts sound like they're straight out of Divorce Court. Hell, my White colleague thinks divorce court is fake as well--some stuff is just too weird to be true. Now I'm not saying that this doesn't happen, mind you. Anyway, a$$hole, hope you enjoyed your 2 seconds of fame.