This sounds like quite a story, "literatefool" seems to have cooked up. I wonder if any of it is even true?!?! His stories seems to be begging for the same question "SHOULD I TELL MY BROTHER?" even after repeated replies of "Ya you should!" I don't want to be giving any advices here, but I think u should just do what u think is best for your brother, your family and YOURSELF! You should stop accusing your "friend with a benefit" for the given situation at hand. I think it's totally wrong to label her as a "psycho." Reading your thread it makes the reader feel like you're one instead!