ok thanx for ur answer.. i am happy you choose da second coz its your life.. and i just wanted to know ur opinion.. well you know most guys who falls in category no 1.. gets changed when they get married and there social behavior does change.. now they dont have anything to loose coz its a game untill guys gets marries? after that its not one life but two life combined and mixed to be one life(i.e both husband and wife)and i have never seen category no 1 guy aint changed when they get married unless they are drunker and unsociable since teeen age.. unless his like that sorry hun you miss your oppurtunity.. think once and ans it.. coz this forumz u posted is very secure and heart touchy.. well me i am regular viewer of this forumz but hardly reply but your thread cought my eye..