In tarai part of Nepal , Indians and Nepali marry all the time. remember guys, kathmandu only is not Nepal. There are different kinds of indians. I like south Indians. They are softer and humbler than people from the north part of the country. If the girl finds the guy attractive and she thinks that she can fit with his family then what is the dillema... I think she does not love the guy. Otherwise, she wouldn't be here asking help from strangers in a message forum. My suggestion to the girl: don't marry him. You obviously do not love him because you are not confident about him. If you were in love with him for real then you wouldn't be asking help from people to decide. If you're marrying him for any selfish reason then you will regret it later. better think with cool mind and say no to the guy - kindly. :)