over the years i have found that ultimately the best antidote to reviving a near-failure relationship between guys and girls (both married and unmarried) is to forget your larger than life ego, lift the phone, punch in the number, arrange a date and time to meet somewhere to talk about it, go and meet the person, put your feelings and views across the table flat and see what reaction you will get. More often than not it works out. If it does not you will always feel that you were pro-active and will never regret what you did compared what you would have probably done - if you hadn't met and talked about it. God gave us mouth and brain and legs for a purpose --just be nice and make good use of it. Don't be a dumb, handicapped, jackass!! My best!