pearls, that disclaimer is out of context, i know (...aww...not really to be really honest hehe :P :P). and no, i am not a sexist. however, i have friends (guys) who are skeptical about marrying a nepali in US coz most of them think that it would be hard to find a virgin girl in US. hence i had to explain my personal stance on this issue. and let me confess, most of we men are hypocritical. LooTe