it's so weird like how hmm..well i mean before someone or in this case me!!! said that i was nosy kind of just went to the bad side of the thread i guess there was more positive comments than before where there was actually negative comments about nosy people!! So, it's almost like people just tend to go with flow of the thread i guess, which makes sense but in other ways it makes the thread boring!! it's almost like people are scared and then you think why would people be so sensitive and careful in just posting in a forum, well i guess it would make a difference if really knew most of the people but still. you know what i mean?? i don't know why i just noticed this but maybe i am just weird!! :S but then again this is not like the first time i noticed it!! whatever!! :S :S