YOUR SOLUTION IS CLEAR - ASK WHY THE ONE WHO DUMPED YOU FIVE YEARS BACK HAS ANY FEELINGS FOR YOU AND WHAT IS THE ASSURANCE THAT HE WILL NOT REPEAT THE SAME THINGS AGAIN. YOU HAVE TO GIVE UP YOUR TEMPTATIONS AND BE REALISTIC. IF THE GUY REALLY LOVED YOU HE WOULD NOT WAIT THIS LONG TO GET HOLD OF YOU...IF HE MADE A MISTAKE HEAR IT FROM HIS MOUTH WHAT AND WHY HE MADE THE MISTAKE...THE TRUTH WILL COME OUT ITSELF. GOOD LUCK!!