girl if i were you...i would really drop that old relation....i mean common....if he didn't even contact you so many years what makes you belive that he is going to keep his promises...(he actually "suspended" your relation) with out even giving a crap abut what you thought or felt or had to go throug...Ok may be he was busy but that is no excuse...if he loved you he would make time to call you.......i am just saying.....